Presentation History

2017 Educational Projects

  • Xpressions Teddy Bear Picnic, June 2017: “Intro to Ageplay”, “Structure: D/s & Ageplay” and “Dark Ageplay”
  • Alamo City Leatherfest Weekend, Feb 2017, presenting “Pumps and Milking”
  • Oklahoma Leatherfest, April 2017, JLJ a panelist for Leather History Panel
  • Austin Little Scouts: Electrical Play

2016 Educational Projects

  • GLLA 15, October: “Intro to Leather”
  • Touch of Leather, September: “Medical Ageplay”
  • Austin Little Scouts: “Intro to Ageplay”
  • Austin Little Scouts: “Intro to Spanking”

2015 Educational Projects

  • Xpressions, Tulsa, OK – January 23-25, 2015: “Sex in the Dungeon; Bringing the Hot Sauce Back Where it Belongs!”,  “Ethical Sluttery: Adding Magic to the Mayhem”, “Pussy Torture: Ins & Outs”
  • SAADE “A Day at the Place”, Austin, TX – January 31: “Medical Staples”
  • KinkFestPortland, OR – February 27–March 1: “Blood, Sex, and Steel”, “Sex in the Dungeon; Bringing the Hot Sauce Back Where it Belongs!”, “Thunder in the Dungeon; Tops Playing with Tops”
  • DFW WHIPS, Fort Worth area – March 21, 2015: “Sexuality, Gender and Power: At Our Core”
  • Kink on the River, Sioux City, IA – March 27–29, 2015: “Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook & Sampler of Depravity in Action”, “Sharp & Shiny: Knife Play on the Edge”
  • Leather Leadership Conference, Atlanta, GA – March 28-29 2015: “Let’s Talk About Domestic Violence
  • Austin subCulture: “Intro to Ageplay”
  • Beyond Leather, Ft. Lauderdale, FL –  April 30–May 3, 2015: “Blood, Sex, and Steel”, “Anal Fisting: The Hole Tour”
  • International Power Exchange Contest Judge
  • DAMSELDallas, TX – May 8: “Blood, Sex, and Steel”
  • MAsT Tulsa, Tulsa, OK – May 24, 2015: “What Keeps Us Coming Back
  • COREDallas, TX – July 19: MASSIVE Edge Play: Putting Shock & Awe Back Into Jaded Bottoms
  • GWNN Bash 22: “Structure”, “Dark Ageplay”
  • San Antonio TNG: “Intro to Ageplay”
  • XpressionsTulsa, OK – September 12: “Intro to Leather”, “Intro to Ageplay”, “Massive Edgeplay”, “Polyamory”, and “Medical Staples”

2014 Educational Projects

  • Bound Rose, Dallas, TX – Sunday, April 2, 2014 – Sanctuary: “Is it Male Sexuality or Abuse?”
  • Mr. & Ms. South Central US Transgender Leather 2014, Shreveport, LA – February 7–9, 2014: Contest Judge
  • CORE – DFW, Dallas, TX – Sunday, February 23, 2014 – 1pm, Sanctuary: Conflict Resolution
  • South Plains Leatherfest-International Master/slave Weekend, Dallas, TX  – March 7-9, 2014: “Sex in the Dungeon; Bringing the Hot Sauce Back Where it Belongs!”, “Blood, Sex, and Steel”
  • Austin SubCulture, Austin, TX – March 2014: Dom Panel member
  • KinkFest, Portland, OR – March 21-23, 2014: “Leather: What was it? What ist it! …and the politics of change”, “Life in a Leather Family: It ain’t all Roses!”, “Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook”
  • Bound RoseDallas, TX – April 2, 2014: “Going Too Far: When Mars & Venus Collide”
  • SAADE “A Day at the Place II”, Austin, TX – April: “Medical Ageplay”
  • Odyssey, College Station, TX – April: “Contracts & non-24/7 M/s”
  • Texas Women’s University – PhD & MS Counseling Students, Denton, TX – April 15, 2014: “Polyamory panel”
  • CORE – DFW, Dallas, TX – June 22, 2014: “Leather Garment and Toy Care: From Necessity to Sex”
  • SubHavenBridging the Slash, Dallas, TX – June 27–28, 2014: “Service Beyond Expectations”
  • GWNN BASH XXIAustin, TX – July 18-20, 2014: “Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook & Sampler of Depravity in Action”, “Thunder in the Dungeon; Tops Playing with Tops”
  • Women’s International Leather Legacy Weekend, Dallas, TX – August 1-3, 2014: Leather: What it Was, What it Is, and the Politics of Change
  • DFW – Alt Munch, Dallas, TX – August 16, 2014: “Service: Complexities and Completion”
  • GLLA – Great Lakes Leather Alliance, Indianapolis, IN – August 21-24, 2014: “Dark Ageplay”
  • Texas Wesleyan University, Sociology Department, Denton, TX – October 29, 30 – 2014: “Domestic Violence vs. BDSM – October 29, 2014”
  • GLBT alliance on gender inclusiveness in BDSM, followed by gender class on the same topic – October 30, 2014
  • Dark Odessey: Surrender, San Francisco, CA – November 17-19, 2014
  • SAADE “A Day at the Place IV”, Austin, November: “Chain Insertion”

2013 Educational Projects

  • Bound Rose, Dallas, TX – February 6, 2013: “Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook”
  • NLA-DallasDallas, TX – March 5, 2013: “March Madness — Concocting Evil Demons In Innocent Minds”
  • South Plains Leatherfest-International Master/slave Weekend, Dallas, TX  – March 8–10, 2013: “Punishment vs. Play; The Devil is in the Details”, “Thunder in the Dungeon; Tops Playing with Tops”
  • Tribal Fire  (on FetLife), Oklahoma City, OK – May 3–5, 2013: “Erotic Play: Adding Magic to the Mayhem”, “Cigars and Leather; Mystique, Camaraderie, Sex and Power”, “Thunder in the Dungeon; Tops Playing with Tops”, “Ethical Sluttery: Adding Magic to the Mayhem”
  • Tournament 25, Minneapolis, MN – May 31–June, 2013: “Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook & Sampler of Depravity in Action”, “Sounds: Slipping Steel Into Their Wee Pee Holes”, “Thunder in the Dungeon; Tops Playing with Tops”
  • Teddy Bear Picnic at The Underground, July: “Structure: D/s and Ageplay”
  • GWNN Bash 20, Austin, TX, July: “Intro to Ageplay”
  • GLLA 12, Indianapolis, In – August: “Structure: D/s and Ageplay”
  • Leather Camp, WOOLF, Wichita, KS – August 16–18, 2013: “Blood, Steel & Sex”, “MASSIVE Edge Play: Putting Shock & Awe Back Into Jaded Bottoms
  • DAMSEL, Dallas, TX – September 6, 2013: “Sex in the Dungeon”
  • Beyond Vanilla, Dallas, TX – September 27–29, 2013: “MASSIVE Edge Play: Putting Shock & Awe Back Into Jaded Bottoms”, “Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook & Sampler of Depravity in Action”
  • DFW – Alt, Dallas, TX – October 19, 2013: “MASSIVE Edge Play: Putting Shock & Awe Back Into Jaded Bottoms”
  • Spanksgiving, St. Louis, MO – November 22-24, 2013: “Bisexuality”, “Cigars & Leather; Mystique, Camaraderie, Sex”, “Ethical Sluttery”, Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook & Sampler of Depravity in Action”, “Service Beyond Expectations”
  • Fort Kickass, November: “Rope for People who Hate Rope”

2012 Educational Projects

  • DFW BoundFebruary 15th, 2012: “Rope bondage”
  • B.O.H.I.C.A. Dom’s Den Austin, February 18–19, 2012: “Training the Tush”, “Anal Play and Anal Sex”, “Topping — Is Rebar all it Takes?”
  • WICKDFebruary 16th, 2012: “Rope bondage”
  • South Plains Leatherfest-International Master/slave WeekendMarch 9–11, 2012: “Masterful Mindfucking: A Cookbook & Sampler of Depravity in Action”, “Sex in The Dungeon: Bringing The Hot Sauce Back to Leather”
  • SINsations in Leather  Chicago — March 30–April 1, 2012 Read writeup by JLJ, “Anal Play and Anal Sex”, “CBT: Smashing Good Fun”
  • Leather Leadership ConferenceNashville, April 13–15, 2012: “Marketing Cookbook: Maximizing Participation at Fundraisers, Conferences & Runs”
  • Panel discussion, polyamory – JLJ TWU, April 17, 2012: Panel member on a group fielding questions from PhD counseling students
  • NLA-Dallas, May 1, 2012: “Sounds IN Hims ‘n Hers”
  • Tribal FireOklahoma City, May 4–6, 2012: “Ethical Sluttery”, “Sharp & Shiny; Knife Play On the Edge”, “MASSIVE Edge Play”
  • Women In Leather InternationalDallas, June 1–3, 2012: Silent Auction
  • WildFyre 6; The Psychedelic Six-TeaseTCC Campground, June 8–10, 2012: “Ethical Sluttery”, “Leather: What was it?  What is it?”, “Sharp & Shiny; Knife Play On the Edge”, “Emotional Unavailability; Land Mines, Heartaches”
  • NOBLENew Orleans, June 22-24: “Conflict Resolution: Fighting Brushfires in the Poly Family”, “Erotic Play: Adding Magic to the Mayhem”, “Submission: Hit or Myth”, “Anal Play and Anal Sex”
  • GWNN Birthday BASH XIX 2012; Decadence & DevianceAustin – TX, July 20–22, 2012: “Sex in The Dungeon: Bringing The Hot Sauce Back to Leather”, “MASSIVE Edge Play”, “Dark Ageplay”
  • Leather Camp — WOOLF, Kansas City, August 17–19, 2012: “Leather History & Lore” panel member, JLubeJack serving as judge for the contest
  • Decade Dash — The Chicago Leather Club – 10th Anniversary!, Chicago,  Sept. 1, 2012
  • Mr. Dallas EagleDallas, TX, September 7-9, 2012:JLubeJack serving as judge for the contest
  • Beyond Vanilla – Double Time! March Into KinkDallas – TX, September 28–30, 2012: “Dungeon Furniture: Construction for Klutzes”, “Pumping: Plumping Precious on Him & Hers”
  • Dom’s Den, Austin, TX – November: “Intro to Ageplay & Dark Ageplay”
  • Fall Frolick 2, 2012Dallas/Ft. Worth – TX, November 14–16, 2012: Cocktail party for SouthPlains Leatherfest / International Master/slave event

2011 Educational Projects

  • NLA-Dallas Leather Wisdom – Feb 1: “What makes a Leatherman?, What makes a Leatherwoman? You sure?”
  • South Plains Leatherfest-International Master/slave WeekendFeb 26-28, 2011: You Put Your Left Foot In… Anal Footing – Cinderella Never Had It So Good!”, “MASSIVE Edge Play: Putting Shock & Awe Back Into Jaded Bottoms”
  • NLA-Dallas Seminar – April 5, 2011: “Fear & Terror; Making Yellow Puddles…”
  • Beyond Leather 4Ft. Lauderdale – April 7-10, 2011: “Knife Play… on the Edge”, “Anal Play & Anal Sex: The No-Nos That are YES!-YES”
  • Tribal Fire 10NLA-Oklahoma City Chapter – April 29-May 1, 2011: Bisexuality: Who’s on First? (Who’s on Next?)”, “Pumping: Plumping Precious (His & Hers)”, “Life in a Leather Family:  Joys, Issues & Pitfalls”
  • Tournament 23, Knights of Leather – Minneapolis – June 3-5, 2011  Tournament 23 Report: “Bisexuality: Who’s on First? (Who’s on Next?)”, “CBT: Smashing Good Fun”, “Polyamory: Hit or Myth?”
  • Dallas Fetlife group, Dallas – June 11, 2011: “Polyamory: Good, Bad… and Better! FetLife Group
  • GWWN BASH, Austin – July 15–17, 2011: “Anal Fisting 101: From Finger to Wrist to Elbow… and More”
  • Great Lakes Leather Alliance,  GLLA X, Indianapolis, IN – August 19-21: “Anal Play 201: Elbow Deep, Double Wide… and MORE!”
  • Twisted in Tulsa, Tulsa, OK – September 16-18, 2011, “Leather:  What was it?  What is it?  …and the Politics of Change”, “MASSIVE Edge Play: Putting Shock & Awe Back Into Jaded Bottoms”
  • Beyond Vanilla, Dallas, TX – September 30-October 2: “Presto Protocols: Power Up Your Scenes”

2010 Educational Projects

  • NLA-Dallas, Dallas – November 20: Advanced Fisting – vaginal & Anal”
  • BADD, Dallas – November 11: “Building and Demonstrating Dominance in DFW” (flyer)
  • Bound Rose Society, Dallas – October 6: “Life in a Leather Family; The Good, The Bad, and The @*&#%”
  • Beyond Vanilla, Dallas – September 24-26: “Leather: What Was it? What Is It? And the Politics of Change…”, “Mind Fucks: Tweak Their Little Heads”
  • NEAAL, Dallas – August 28: “Ethical Sluttery: Throwing Off the Shackles”
  • Thunder in the Mountains, Denver – July 16-18: “Anal Play & Anal Sex: The No-Nos That are YES!-YES!”, “Polyamory: Nuts, Bolts & Nirvana”
  • Bound Rose Society, Dallas – July 7, “Service Beyond Expectations”
  • TNG, Dallas – July 3 (Yahoo Group): “Erotic Play: Building the Excitement”
  • WildFyre, TCC – June 11-13: “Anal Fisting 101: From Finger to Wrist to Elbow… and More”, “CBT: Smashing Good Fun”, “Conflict Resolution: Fighting Brushfires in Relationships”, “Leather: What Was it? What Is It? And the Politics of Change…”, “Service: The Good, The Bad, And The Ugly”
  • TNG, Dallas – May 29: Participate in fundraising auction; mentoring, photography, play, massages. Recipient is the Ali Forney Center , an outreach and support center for GLBT teens on the street
  • Shibaricon, Chicago – May 28-31, “HoJoJutsu for Pirates”, “Knot Knotless
  • WICK’D, Dallas – May 21: “Strap-Ons For Sex, Strap-Ons For Power, Strap-Ons For Fun”
  • Fresh Leather, Dallas – May 7 (FetLife, Yahoo Group): “Finding Yourself: The Never-Ending Voyage”
  • Bound Rose Society, Dallas – May 5, “Erotic Play: Building the Excitement”
  • Tribal Fire, Oklahoma City – April 30-May 2: “Anal Play & Anal Sex”, “Polyamory: Hit or Myth”, “Switches: Straddlin’ the Fence”, “Mind Fucks: 20 Tricks to Mess With Their Heads”
  • NEAAL, Dallas – March 27: Group discussion leaders: fetish, BDSM, lifestyle – Click/Tick
  • SINsations in Leather, Chicago – March 12-14: “Anal Fisting 101: From Finger to Wrist to Elbow… and More”, “CBT: Smashing Good Fun”, “Erotic Play: A Couples Workshop”, “Polyamory: Hit or Myth”
  • Fresh Leather, Dallas – March 5 (FetLife, Yahoo Group): Scene safety in: Setting up play dates, Personal information, “Real-life” identity protection, Forming one’s personal identity within the lifestyle- names, roles, affiliations, etc.
  • Leather History: LA&M and WLHP